To motivate our children to please God

"When we appeal to our children’s hearts for excellence and choices of good behavior, then we are giving them the will and desire to be excellent all for themselves. Their desire comes from within and their motivation is from their heart. But if we train them behaviorally by always forcing them to do what we want them to do because they might get a spanking, or another kind of threatened discipline, then their motivation is to avoid spanking or harshness but not to please God or to please their parents, by having a good heart and responding in obedience." Sally Clarkson (click on Sally's name to read the rest of what she has to say).

I really needed to read this today. Claire has been having some severe temper tantrums and I think today Mama was on the verge of a major meltdown! I love Sally Clarkson's blog and I want to buy every one of her books! She is so encouraging to mothers. I really do recommend that you make a detour by her blog and read this post. It will bless you in your role as Mom. Have a great weekend!

Love and Prayers,
Julie

Charlie's letter to me..(with his permission to post; of course!)

I would like to thank my wife for taking this challenge and for all the GREAT things she says about me. It certainly is a challenge for me to try to live a life that is pleasing to God. To guide my family in the right direction. Every now and then it seems like I get it right. Anyways, thanks so much, baby! Your blog is always uplifting. I know it helps you in so many ways. I love that you have these friends to share your thoughts with.

Love you so much,
Charles Edward