I have read this many times in the past few years. I thought I would share some of my favorite passages with you:
We can say, " I will not allow anythiing to destroy my marriage."
" I will not stand by and watch m husband be wearied, beat down, or destroyed."
" I will not sit idle while an invisible wall goes up between us"
" I will not allow confusion, miscommunication, wrong atttitudes, and bad choices to erode what we are trying to build together."
"I will not tolerate hurt and unforgiveness leading us to divorce."
We can take a stand against any negative influences in our marriage and know that God has given us authority in His name to back it up. (Matthew 18:18)
Well, I will post more tomorrow, it is getting late and I am sleepy. Just thought this might help someone.